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There will always be competing stories, and if your vision of the future is not clear then those competing stories will win.
In the last couple of reflections I have been processing the importance of engaging with the reality of the community in which you find yourself, which is so important, but if you want to do ministry your job is to change that reality. Put simply reality changes when how we think about the reality changes. Ultimately the wall of Jerusalem was rebuilt in 50 days by people who had been living alongside the problem and feeling powerless about it all that time. The main thing that Nehemiah provided was a different view of reality. After really knowing and understanding both the situation and the people he stands before them and…
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United we stand
Its gonna hurt As I was talking about yesterday, I have been reminded lately that we are in a battle. I also know that one of the biggest battlegrounds is in my head. There is part of me that wants to do whatever I can to feel good and run away from pain. I know that one side of the battle is trying hard to get me thinking about myself, the other side is wanting to call me beyond myself.
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Put down your guns
Fighting for everyone to win While I am on holidays I thought I would do a series of posts about a strategy for dealing with conflict. Conflict isn’t a bad thing, in fact I would like to suggest that it’s not possible to have real community without it. However most of us find conflict difficult and experience it as a fight to get someone else to see the world the way we do. Carl Jung said: “The most intense conflicts, if overcome, leave behind a sense of security and calm that is not easily disturbed. It is just these intense conflicts and their conflagration which are needed to produce valuable…







